why try to change your goodness for the benefit of someone else

If you're living happy and doing the things that you think are good, stay that way. I say this in a sense where it's not even me we're talking about. My ex girlfriend was and is a really good girl. When I broke up with her, she said she wanted to change to be how I would want her to be, and she wanted to do and be different from how she was. That's total nonsense. I told her to stay exactly how she is. I mean, isn't that how I started to like her in the first place? I was the one who didn't appreciate how she was. Another man will come into her life one day and hopefully he was appreciate her. She's a genuine, loyal, thoughtful, truth telling person and NO ONEEE should try to change that about her, including myself. So never should you EVERRR change your goodness for the benefit of someone else. There will be someone who loves you for the exact person you are. No body is perfect but flaws are to be dealt with. If a person can't accept you at your worst, they cant accept you at your best.   :)

why not clean up after yourself

So I came home from school today and the house was a fricken messsssss!! My mom works second shift now so my little brother and sister are home to do whatever they want. What they're forgetting is I will be on their ass if they misbehave. I told them them to clean up their messes along with the rest of the house and if they were to do so? Well I was going to beat their asses. Scared that I will, they cleaned. If they were to clean up after themselves without being told, I wouldn't have got on their case. Little kids nowadays don't care about anything. It's sad sometimes haha. So never should you ever leave your mess around. Especially bowls and little things. I mean, don't you want to live in a clean house? It's your house too so just keep it clean please.

why be lazy? work as hard as you can now

Since I was 12 years old, I used to work at a warehouse that paid everyone under the table. Sadly, I only got paid about 4.75 an hour. I couldn't even complain though because I wasn't even at the legal working ago back then. I had to lie about my age and on work days, I would work extra hard. I only did this for my own benefit. My family didn't have money like that so it was rare for me to get anything nice. So I figure I'd make my own money so my mom wouldn't have to worry about me. Ever since then, I had a job. When I turned 15 I finally got a real job that paid me by check, and until this day, I still work there. I figured if I work hard now, I can have more fun later. All the money I made, I saved some but spent most. I mean why work hard and not play hard right? haha So yeahhh Never should you ever be lazy! Just work really hard now while you have the drive too. Therefore, later in life, you'll feel like you didn't waste your young years and you'll have a lot more fun then being a broke asss.

why dwell on the past of someone else

Now I say this for everyone. We all have things in the past that we might have liked. Stupid things, things that we regret, and things that could've easily been taken back. As humans, well all make mistakes. It's only up to the person to learn from it. That's why if someone, especially somebody you might be or want to get involved with, has a few "flaws" in there lifetime, don't fully judge them. I mean people really do change. I know I know, there's a possibility that they haven't and they'll end up screw you over. But are you going to sit there and no even give them the chance? That my friends, is up to you. I say F**K their past and start yourself fresh with them. Give 100% because who doesn't want to be a 100% type of person? I mean you would want him/her to be 100 too right? Just give them a chance and you'll find out for yourself. If they turn out to be the same or screw you over somehow, hey, at least you gave 100% and tried. In the end, you're still a respectable good person. And even if bad memories come along with the package, I'm sure there will be plenty of good loving memories too. So never should you ever dwell on the past of someone else. I mean the point of the past is to get passed it right? haha who knows, they could be the perfect one for youuu :)

why dwell on the past

I've had and have a pretty crazy life. Good and Bad times. I try to think about the good times more so only because it helps me think and be more positive. As for the bad times, I've had plentyyyy!!! But bad times are meant to happen. I can say I've learn from all the bad times I've had. I mean although I learned, doesn't mean I don't make the same mistakes. I know that sounds stupid, but I'm only human and I make many. Even if it's the same one. No matter what, I try to move forward and continue to be happy. I mean what's the point of continuing to dread over some BS that already happened. Guess what? It's toooo late noww, and complaining about what could've should've and would've been as no significance. So that's why one of my best advice is, NEVER SHOULD YOU EVER DWELL ON THE PAST, and  I will follow this post up with another blog speaking of the past but this time, somebody else past.

why say it? just do it

You know one aspect of a person that I really do love? Someone who is a person of their word. A person of action rather than just blabbing their thoughts and saying they're going to do things. I mean I know that sometimes things don't go as planned, but when someone does that constantly, I just think whatever they're saying is blah blah nowadays. Plus if you're really not planning to do something, just keep it to yourself as a thought. When you don't do it and people question why you haven't, it just makes you look bad. But if you don't say anything and just be all action and mention how you thought about it, that's respectful. So never should you ever just say things, just do it!!!

why not use your turn signals

So I was driving home from school today and it's lightly raining outside. I hate light rain because it's really slippery. To add to that, my tires are bad and my car is rear wheel drive and it seems to slip out often. So when ever the weather's like this, I tend to drive really safe because I'm paranoid. So I'm on route 42 going about 65 on the fast lane, while this dumbassssssss car just cuts in front of me without even signaling for me to beep at his dumbasss!! I don't even hit the breaks because I know I would spin out if I did. So I swerved over to the middle lane while beeping the crap out of him. You shouldn't flip anyone off, but I flipped him off. He knew he was wrong because he didn't even look at me and trailed way behind. That could've caused a horrible accident all because he didn't use his turn signal. So never should you ever forget to use your turn signals. Especially on the highway on a cloudy rainy day turning into the fast lane! :)

why the negative assumption

Assuming isn't always a bad thing. It sort of gets you prepared for the truth almost. But negative assumptions can make a person look stupid sometimes. For example, the other day a friend was talking to me about something, and it didn't totally make sense to me. So I automatically turned around and called her a liar without even questioning her. Turns out she wasn't after explaining herself. That made me look stupid and feel stupid. Another example is assuming a person is mad because their "tone" while texting. Just because their "tone" is a little off doesn't mean they're upset or bothered. It could be because they want to reply but they're kind of busy. So yea, never should you ever have negative assumptions. It just doesn't give a positive outlook on you. People look negative when they think negative. It's good to have a guard up sometimes, but the truth is what you should believe, not your negative assumption.

why are you so nosy? then blab your mouth

I have a friend that's really cool to hang out with and he does help out when I'm in need. He has one huge problem though. He is probably the nosiest person I've even known. Every time two people is having a conversation, you can see him zero in his ears on what they're talking about. I mean it's good to know things, but not when you have nothing to do with it and decide to tell the world with your big mouth too. This is a bad trait and it can definitely cause a lot of problem in a friendship, or even if they're not friends. So never should you ever be nosy, and blab your mouth. Especially when the information is none of your freaking business.    :)

why not be organized

So I just left my Internet Tools class about an hour ago. My first mistake was getting there late. I usually have transportation problems but today I had no excuse for being late. When I took the quiz we usually have every Tuesday, I realized that all my notes were scattered all over my photo album in my phone. I take pictures of my notes in class to make it easier on me, but my second mistake was no organizing it in a folder days ahead. My last mistake was not paying attention to the time left. -___- yea it sucked that I got a 2/10 but it's okay because I learned a lesson in life just now. So never should you ever be unorganized! It'll just make life easier and mistakes like the ones I made today would've never happened.

why gamble when you already make enough to survive.

Plenty of people in this world, including myself, like to gamble. It's either the thrill of losing or winning money, or just a way to make things more interesting. Either way though, it's no good! Gambling is an addiction that can ruin lives. I started gambling when I was young, and all of the good times don't come close to all of the bad times I had gambling. If i were to never gamble in my entire life, I would probably be 10 times richer, or 10 times happier, I'd accept either one. All these years of losing big money and winning petty change has not been worth it. So never should you ever gamble when you already make enough to survive. The thrill is actually unnecessary stress you're putting upon yourself. Don't you think?

why neglect the needs of your eyes

So I had pink eye throughout the whole Thanksgiving weekend..... Yea it did suck, but I have no one to blame but myself. I where contacts on a daily basis if I don't have glasses on. Usually when I have contacts on, I keep them in for several days and nights before taking them out. Stupid me. They're disposable so I'm not suppose to sleep with them in. When I woke up on Thursday morning, it was difficult to open my eyes. I thought it was just because they were dry from sleeping with the contacts in, which is normal. Hours later, it started hurting. I wasn't home so I didn't have solution to take it out. Since my eye was so red and dry, I stupidly decided to put visine in my eyes. That was the worst mistake ever!!! An hour after that, I was forced to remove the contacts and just toss it away. I thought that I could sleep it off, so i took a little nap. The worst didn't come until I woke up and realized I couldn't open my eyes. It was the worst pinkeye I have ever experience. Now it's Wednesday and finally it's almost 100%. So if you wear contacts, learn from this experience! Never should you EVERRR neglect the needs of your eyes! If blindness was to occur, then you would have no one to blame but yourself. And plus Doctors are expensive so just avoid it all.   :)

why doubt yourself

I have a friend who had to finish a research paper in a day plus preparing for a presentation. Unfortunately I was on the same boat. It was assigned almost two months in advance, but we waited til the last day to complete it. He actually got to finish his on time but I was a day late! If it wasn't for me doubting myself and procrastinating like the nimwaddd I am, I would've finished on time just like my friend. When I think about it now, I definitely could've finished on time and receive a good grade if I weren't thinking so negative the whole day. Good thing I finished up the whole project by the next day, leaving it only the research paper a day late. ANDDDD luckily the group that went the day we were suppose to go took to long. So we had a lucky break and I had extra time to prepare my presentation. Also I still got an A on my late paper. How lucky was that?? haha but luck doesn't come all the time so never should you ever doubt yourself, and think positive!!!

why lie to the point where you're lost in your own lies??

I don't know if you know any compulsive liars, but I've encounter plenty in my life! The funny thing is I had an argument with one the other day. We were arguing about something she said to me that came back to bite her in the ass. So she tried to defend herself by telling me what she "actually" said. When she started talking, I couldn't help but to ask myself, is she serious? I mean she was completely lying right in front of my face about everything she said. The only thing I could do is laugh. Then I tell her she's liar and everything she's saying is a lie. As soon as that happens, she gets really upset and starts crying. That was either a defensive move or she's really emotionally hurt that I don't believe her. If she really thinks she's telling the truth? She had to have lied about saying so many things that she must've lost track of what she said. It made her look foolish and I would never want to look like that arguing with someone to get my point across. So save yourself some dignity and foolishness by not lying to the point where you're lost in your own lies. I mean we shouldn't lie anyways, but lying sometimes is apart of everyday life whether we realize it or not.

why let go of the best thing that's ever happened to you

My ex girlfriend was probably the greatest person I've ever come across in my entire life. Although I knew that, I was still capable of breaking her heart. I don't really know why. It was probably the lust, maybe the curiosity. It could also be plain stupidity. What ever it is, it made me do the stupidest thing I've probably ever done, and that's hurting her. She was really good to me and didn't deserve any of the pain that I caused her. So never should you ever let go of the best thing that's ever happened to you. Regretting isn't the best thing to do, but this is something that would be difficult not to regret.

why care for someone who doesn't give a crap about you

I had a friend who was pretty good friends with me for over 8 years. We hung out and and had a lot of good memories. Well, they were good to me at least. After a while i realized that he was never really there for me. A lot of my old friends and even new friends told me that i shouldn't trust him. Being the nice person that I am, I disregarded everyone and their warning. I gave him the benefit of the doubt to only have him screw me over multiple times in the few years. I just care because we were good friends, but now that I've seen the true colors, I couldn't give a crap about him. So never should you EVERRR care for someone who doesn't give a crap about you. It'll only hurt you at the end.

why show off your money

Don't get me wrong. A lot of money is good to have, and trust me when I say I'm not hating. Showing it off like this though? You're just giving me a reason to try to rob you. It's good for you that you're making money but your money should be personal business. It's like telling someone how many shirts you own. No one really cares unless they're trying to take it from you, or use it somehow. It's a proud thing to make a lot of money and everyone, including myself knows it's a great feeling. Showing it off would only cause you trouble though. So save yourself a little trouble, and never should you ever show off your money. Since you know you're making it, that's all that matters! Good job!

why judge people when you don't know them

If I don't personally know someone, I wouldn't really care for them enough to say anything good nor bad about them. If I were to say something good, it would be a compliment, or something admirable I heard about them. If i were to say something bad? Well that probably wouldn't happen because I don't judge based on what other people say about them. Also I surely wouldn't hate on them because I'm really no one to judge anyone, whether it's reputation, appearance, or just anything. You'll never know, that person you're talking bad about could be the best friend to you ever. Like the saying goes, "don't judge a book by it's cover" and that can't be said any better. So never should you ever judge people when you really don't know them. It's just not necessary, most times. haha

why front when you like someone and they feel the same way?

When I have feelings for someone, most of the time, I wouldn't be afraid to show it. That's especially if the person I like have feelings in return. So fronting is the term I use for those who act the opposite of how they really want to act, and hides the way they feel. When the person I like fronts, all it does is confuse me, gets me frustrated, and makes me want to walk the other way. What if I actually do walk the other way and never look back? Ever thought of that? haha But seriously, maybe in high school that was cute or whatever but I'm grown now and I don't want to be playing games. Therefore, never should you ever front when you like someone and they feel the same way. You're just hurting each other really.

why procrastinate

Procrastination is probably the biggest waste of time. If there is a task at hand, just finish it! Therefore, you can finish whatever it is that you have to do and no longer worry about it. It also gives you a big feeling of accomplishment and ease when the task is finished. Waiting til the last minute will only lay upon a lot of unnecessary stress that could have easily been prevent. so never should you EVERRR procrastinate!!! Things will simple be easier that way.

why be rude to those in the food industry

I work in the food industry, and I happen to deal with all types of people. I would like to thank all of the nice customers that come by everyday. I really do appreciate you guys. I would like to say to all of the rude customers though that they are disrespectful and need to f**k off if they're going to be a**holes when they order. Never should you ever be rude to those in the food industry. Especially when they're the ones making your food! We're taking the time to make you a meal and if you were a lil nicer, maybe the food would be made with more love and care. I'm not speaking for fast food restaurants either. So please, just be friendly and more than likely we would be friendly also. Once again, thank you to all the lady and gentlemen-like customers.    :)

why steal other peoples phones

Cell phones are a big part of peoples lives. Most people put any and everything on them, especially since there's smart phone now. If somehow they get their phone stolen; the person would go nuttts!!!! Imagine how they would feel if you never had your phone stolen. Not a good feeling huh? Therefore, never should you EVER steal someones people. And if you happen to find it, just return it because you would love for someone to do the same if you happen to be in that scenario.


p.s. EFF THIEVES!

why drink so much

I know people always want to party and have fun, but they also have to know their limit. Getting kicked out of a bar because you're falling all over the place and can't even watch where you going is not attractive. Those who do that only have people staring at them not because they're cool, but it because they look foolish. Never should you ever drink to the point where you're a mess and people have to take care of you. Especially when you're out in public. It's embarrassing!

why be tough

People who stroll in big groups and pick on individuals who are by themselves are cowards. What makes it even worst is when they actually attempt to rob someone and fail. Just last night I was in the city sitting on steps waiting for a ride. A group of "tough" guys walks by and one decides he wants to come grab me phone. So his friend punches me in the face and instantly gets an unexpected upper cut to his chin. Standing before me was 10 dudes ready to jump me. What do they think I'm just going to hand the phone to them? Surprisingly they all walked away and I sat down peacefully continuing to wait for my ride. I don't know who's more surprised, me for seeing them walk away, or them for seeing me ready to defend myself. Never should you ever pick on someone by themselves while you're with a big group. First of all it's a coward move. Second, you really don't know what someone is capable of. I just hope my uppercut taught that mufuka a lesson. :D