why try to change your goodness for the benefit of someone else

If you're living happy and doing the things that you think are good, stay that way. I say this in a sense where it's not even me we're talking about. My ex girlfriend was and is a really good girl. When I broke up with her, she said she wanted to change to be how I would want her to be, and she wanted to do and be different from how she was. That's total nonsense. I told her to stay exactly how she is. I mean, isn't that how I started to like her in the first place? I was the one who didn't appreciate how she was. Another man will come into her life one day and hopefully he was appreciate her. She's a genuine, loyal, thoughtful, truth telling person and NO ONEEE should try to change that about her, including myself. So never should you EVERRR change your goodness for the benefit of someone else. There will be someone who loves you for the exact person you are. No body is perfect but flaws are to be dealt with. If a person can't accept you at your worst, they cant accept you at your best.   :)