why try to change your goodness for the benefit of someone else

If you're living happy and doing the things that you think are good, stay that way. I say this in a sense where it's not even me we're talking about. My ex girlfriend was and is a really good girl. When I broke up with her, she said she wanted to change to be how I would want her to be, and she wanted to do and be different from how she was. That's total nonsense. I told her to stay exactly how she is. I mean, isn't that how I started to like her in the first place? I was the one who didn't appreciate how she was. Another man will come into her life one day and hopefully he was appreciate her. She's a genuine, loyal, thoughtful, truth telling person and NO ONEEE should try to change that about her, including myself. So never should you EVERRR change your goodness for the benefit of someone else. There will be someone who loves you for the exact person you are. No body is perfect but flaws are to be dealt with. If a person can't accept you at your worst, they cant accept you at your best.   :)

why not clean up after yourself

So I came home from school today and the house was a fricken messsssss!! My mom works second shift now so my little brother and sister are home to do whatever they want. What they're forgetting is I will be on their ass if they misbehave. I told them them to clean up their messes along with the rest of the house and if they were to do so? Well I was going to beat their asses. Scared that I will, they cleaned. If they were to clean up after themselves without being told, I wouldn't have got on their case. Little kids nowadays don't care about anything. It's sad sometimes haha. So never should you ever leave your mess around. Especially bowls and little things. I mean, don't you want to live in a clean house? It's your house too so just keep it clean please.

why be lazy? work as hard as you can now

Since I was 12 years old, I used to work at a warehouse that paid everyone under the table. Sadly, I only got paid about 4.75 an hour. I couldn't even complain though because I wasn't even at the legal working ago back then. I had to lie about my age and on work days, I would work extra hard. I only did this for my own benefit. My family didn't have money like that so it was rare for me to get anything nice. So I figure I'd make my own money so my mom wouldn't have to worry about me. Ever since then, I had a job. When I turned 15 I finally got a real job that paid me by check, and until this day, I still work there. I figured if I work hard now, I can have more fun later. All the money I made, I saved some but spent most. I mean why work hard and not play hard right? haha So yeahhh Never should you ever be lazy! Just work really hard now while you have the drive too. Therefore, later in life, you'll feel like you didn't waste your young years and you'll have a lot more fun then being a broke asss.

why dwell on the past of someone else

Now I say this for everyone. We all have things in the past that we might have liked. Stupid things, things that we regret, and things that could've easily been taken back. As humans, well all make mistakes. It's only up to the person to learn from it. That's why if someone, especially somebody you might be or want to get involved with, has a few "flaws" in there lifetime, don't fully judge them. I mean people really do change. I know I know, there's a possibility that they haven't and they'll end up screw you over. But are you going to sit there and no even give them the chance? That my friends, is up to you. I say F**K their past and start yourself fresh with them. Give 100% because who doesn't want to be a 100% type of person? I mean you would want him/her to be 100 too right? Just give them a chance and you'll find out for yourself. If they turn out to be the same or screw you over somehow, hey, at least you gave 100% and tried. In the end, you're still a respectable good person. And even if bad memories come along with the package, I'm sure there will be plenty of good loving memories too. So never should you ever dwell on the past of someone else. I mean the point of the past is to get passed it right? haha who knows, they could be the perfect one for youuu :)

why dwell on the past

I've had and have a pretty crazy life. Good and Bad times. I try to think about the good times more so only because it helps me think and be more positive. As for the bad times, I've had plentyyyy!!! But bad times are meant to happen. I can say I've learn from all the bad times I've had. I mean although I learned, doesn't mean I don't make the same mistakes. I know that sounds stupid, but I'm only human and I make many. Even if it's the same one. No matter what, I try to move forward and continue to be happy. I mean what's the point of continuing to dread over some BS that already happened. Guess what? It's toooo late noww, and complaining about what could've should've and would've been as no significance. So that's why one of my best advice is, NEVER SHOULD YOU EVER DWELL ON THE PAST, and  I will follow this post up with another blog speaking of the past but this time, somebody else past.

why say it? just do it

You know one aspect of a person that I really do love? Someone who is a person of their word. A person of action rather than just blabbing their thoughts and saying they're going to do things. I mean I know that sometimes things don't go as planned, but when someone does that constantly, I just think whatever they're saying is blah blah nowadays. Plus if you're really not planning to do something, just keep it to yourself as a thought. When you don't do it and people question why you haven't, it just makes you look bad. But if you don't say anything and just be all action and mention how you thought about it, that's respectful. So never should you ever just say things, just do it!!!

why not use your turn signals

So I was driving home from school today and it's lightly raining outside. I hate light rain because it's really slippery. To add to that, my tires are bad and my car is rear wheel drive and it seems to slip out often. So when ever the weather's like this, I tend to drive really safe because I'm paranoid. So I'm on route 42 going about 65 on the fast lane, while this dumbassssssss car just cuts in front of me without even signaling for me to beep at his dumbasss!! I don't even hit the breaks because I know I would spin out if I did. So I swerved over to the middle lane while beeping the crap out of him. You shouldn't flip anyone off, but I flipped him off. He knew he was wrong because he didn't even look at me and trailed way behind. That could've caused a horrible accident all because he didn't use his turn signal. So never should you ever forget to use your turn signals. Especially on the highway on a cloudy rainy day turning into the fast lane! :)

why the negative assumption

Assuming isn't always a bad thing. It sort of gets you prepared for the truth almost. But negative assumptions can make a person look stupid sometimes. For example, the other day a friend was talking to me about something, and it didn't totally make sense to me. So I automatically turned around and called her a liar without even questioning her. Turns out she wasn't after explaining herself. That made me look stupid and feel stupid. Another example is assuming a person is mad because their "tone" while texting. Just because their "tone" is a little off doesn't mean they're upset or bothered. It could be because they want to reply but they're kind of busy. So yea, never should you ever have negative assumptions. It just doesn't give a positive outlook on you. People look negative when they think negative. It's good to have a guard up sometimes, but the truth is what you should believe, not your negative assumption.

why are you so nosy? then blab your mouth

I have a friend that's really cool to hang out with and he does help out when I'm in need. He has one huge problem though. He is probably the nosiest person I've even known. Every time two people is having a conversation, you can see him zero in his ears on what they're talking about. I mean it's good to know things, but not when you have nothing to do with it and decide to tell the world with your big mouth too. This is a bad trait and it can definitely cause a lot of problem in a friendship, or even if they're not friends. So never should you ever be nosy, and blab your mouth. Especially when the information is none of your freaking business.    :)

why not be organized

So I just left my Internet Tools class about an hour ago. My first mistake was getting there late. I usually have transportation problems but today I had no excuse for being late. When I took the quiz we usually have every Tuesday, I realized that all my notes were scattered all over my photo album in my phone. I take pictures of my notes in class to make it easier on me, but my second mistake was no organizing it in a folder days ahead. My last mistake was not paying attention to the time left. -___- yea it sucked that I got a 2/10 but it's okay because I learned a lesson in life just now. So never should you ever be unorganized! It'll just make life easier and mistakes like the ones I made today would've never happened.